Shared Parenting
About the Books
Whether it’s separation or divorce, here's the painful truth of what happens to a parent after their child custody battle enters the courtroom. It's the mind-boggling dilemma no one talks about. Behind this is a trail of dependent kids clinging to the dominating domiciliary parent as they alienate their other parent. Early preteen estrangement develops for the absent parent they once loved. Heart damage from this becomes irreversible. These books give advice and direction for the non-custodial parent to gain the love and honor they want from their children. It reveals when it’s time to take action and puts on display what is needed to do well in court. The methods used to overcome many obstacles in this legal process promotes shared parenting. This is not just another boring story about a custody case. It’s a non-stop suspense journey. Included are the outrageous impactful events in America that affected our nation and shocked our kids. Every day innocent people are falsely accused of things that never occurred. A Judge cannot do anything if he doesn't have the facts. Those who let their guard down should be prepared to suffer the heartache of a sorrowful outcome that can become permanent. Don’t let that be you!
Family Law
Joint Custody
During our last visits together these are the pink letters she'd go write and bring to me before having to leave. The last one for her mom is from 2001. When I asked why she wrote that, sadly she didn't know if her mom loved her. Boo, your mommy loves you very much I told her, and suggested she leave it with me. Her little heartwarming notes show that she loved her dad very much :)
Non-Custodial Parent
Poppa Won
For many couples, life with children is full of joy. When problems set in some folks choose to break up. Often there is one parent who will be forced to lose time with the kids. It started as a full-scale war based on mom's allegations. Refusing to give up on his daughter, dad provided the truth that proved his innocence. Obedience is what unshackled him from the court and awarded him time to be with his little girl. In spite of the adversities, dad remained a fun parent and enjoyed plenty of meaningful outings at the places his daughter liked. All these memories are the golden treasures of his life. This book can serve as a how to do list for the non-custodial parent who is determined to remain in the life of their child. It provides clues to recognize the warning signs of abuse at the other home or in school. Stay informed and make your voice heard or you will suffer dreadful consequences with feelings of regret that can linger on for a lifetime. An unfair verdict handed down by the uninformed Judge creates a heavy, unbearable amount of emotional stress for non-custodial parents!
Parental Alienation
Poppa Too
After building a wonderful relationship with his daughter, a dad tells of how she was unlawfully removed to another state by her mother. Before leaving town her mom made new accusations that forced dad to hire two attorneys. She refused to return and elaborate on her allegations. Primarily, this book is written to serve as a guide to educate non-custodial parents. It has the critical questions that should be asked in many different situations that occur in a child custody case. Sometimes it’s difficult to shield the kids from the arena where this takes place. The confusion and sadness they may be feeling often goes unnoticed. The heart of a child is more tender, more responsive, more eager, because it hasn't been filled with accumulated years of selfishness, worldliness, and cultivated lusts. A loving parent would never lower themself and choose to play tug of war with the heart and mind of their child to get back at the other parent whom this little one loves. Any parent who feels this kind of vengeance would never occur should know that it can happen if he or she does not take the necessary action of prevention, which is the main reason this second book exists!
