POPPA WON 2025 Revision

     At the heart of every human being is a relationship they cherish either with family or friend. This is all part of the divine plan from creation however, some don’t last. Most folks agree that their children bring great joy into their lives and that is what this story is about. A baby girl born to a couple became the blessing they longed for. As with many unions, her parents could not stay together and now the departing one faced an uphill struggle to remain in the life of their child. 

     Single parenting for many is not the chosen path. Dad knew he would have obstacles and the time with his daughter would be limited and short. After he surrendered, miracles paved the way for his success. He became a shield for her deflecting the chaos that ensued. Their time together would always be the same, educational and fun with selected activities she could learn from. He obeyed the judgments and made the changes necessary to keep his visits. Working to protect her heart and mind rewarded him with the love and honor of his little girl. As tensions rose from the opposition he continued being a good dad, her mentor and that gave him the title, poppa won.  

     In the beginning their relationship developed into a strong bond. In addition to her two sons, she gave birth to the baby girl she always wanted. As with many couples, their young child takes center stage. Two years later they moved into the home she bought and the happy family this mom and dad always wanted had become a reality. Within a year red flags began popping up as she went back to her old habits and wouldn't set boundaries with her grown sons. There was no more communication and the love they shared was replaced with friction. To be a better parent for his little girl dad moved out, half a mile away while mom and her lawyer set a court date for him to face her allegations.

     She accused him of drug and substance abuse, including alcohol; threatening the mover and the minor child on several occasions and she was seeking sole care custody. They added that he was a repeat offender in his early years and that made dad look guilty. He was new to this and his attorney suggests if he wants to see his daughter, take their offer. Dad was put on supervised visitation. 

     After his loss dad refused to give up on his only child. He rebounded with extensive research and investigations that included documenting. He obeyed the judgments, successfully gathered evidence to prove his innocence, he built a strong defense and gained the freedom to have more time with his little girl to prevent her from having a life without her dad. His concern for other non-custodial parents became the main reason he started this campaign to warn them of this atrocious legal proceeding so they can avoid the emotional wounds caused by the stress this kind of inhumane battle creates. His primary goal was to save his child from the effects of being fatherless. After the judge awarded him more time to be with her, he reveals how he continued being the dad his little girl loved.

    Whether it’s separation or divorce, here's the painful truth of what can happen when a custody battle enters the courtroom. It's the mind-boggling dilemma no one talks about. This can result in dependent kids clinging to a dominating domiciliary parent as they alienate their other parent. Early preteen estrangement develops for the absent parent they once loved. If their separation is long term the heart damage can be irreversible. This book gives advice and direction to non-custodial parents so he or she can gain the love and honor they want from their kids. It reveals when it’s time to take action and puts on display what is needed to do well in court. This is not another boring story about a custody case. It’s a non-stop suspense journey exposing the shocking events that took place in this legal process. It helps to formulate the right questions and pursue with investigations. This text can be a tactical handbook for developing strategies that prevent chaos and gather evidence for defense against the assailants. Additionally, it also teaches how to be the fun parent and win the admiration of your kids by giving them what they want, your time. The most compelling subject matter in this true story is the resilience of a father who was determined to be involved in life of his only child. A parent who fails to take action and lets their guard down should be prepared to suffer the heartache and the sorrow from the outcome of an unfair verdict that can become permanent. Don’t let that be you!